I feel pretty good about the way things are going with my life. I put my dating profile back up and would like to meet people in hopes to eventually meet the one. However, I have been extremely discerning and have come across many red-flags that I see and look out for. I admit, I delete most of my emails that come through, the ratio of maybe 1 out of 10 emails are worth responding back to is pretty accurate.
1. I receive a message from a man who has a picture presenting himself in a way that he is somewhat gangster or thug.
2. I receive a message, respond back asking a question about themselves and they answer but don't ask anything back.
3. They admit that they haven't read my profile.
4. Make negative comments about dating or admit they aren't looking for a relationship
5. Have little or no common interests or values.
6. Use poor grammar and spelling.
7. Are too aggressive. I had one man ask me during an initial email conversation whether or not I had a 'hot bikini' to wear on his boat!?
8. After I stated in my profile none-the-less that I didn't drink, he asked me to go for drinks, he continued to ask how I couldn't drink on a boat?
9. The guy is completely self-absorbed and do not take reference anything I say in my profile or probe about what information I do share with them in effort to get to know me.
10. Are in a mad rush to meet because they don't want to waste time.
These are my 10 standards
1. A profile presented with photos of a well-respectful man and introduction with proper spelling and grammar.
2. Asking me questions directly related to my profile, engaging and lively.
3. They show they have read my profile by paying attention to the details.
4. They clearly state they are looking for a relationship and have a positive outlook.
5. Share values and common interests. We share common goals.
6. Respectful, consciousness, thoughtful and fun.
7. Clearly express an interest in getting to know me.
8. Are in an appropriate age range.
9. Have a respectful living.
10. Must be a nature and animal lover.
1. I receive a message from a man who has a picture presenting himself in a way that he is somewhat gangster or thug.
2. I receive a message, respond back asking a question about themselves and they answer but don't ask anything back.
3. They admit that they haven't read my profile.
4. Make negative comments about dating or admit they aren't looking for a relationship
5. Have little or no common interests or values.
6. Use poor grammar and spelling.
7. Are too aggressive. I had one man ask me during an initial email conversation whether or not I had a 'hot bikini' to wear on his boat!?
8. After I stated in my profile none-the-less that I didn't drink, he asked me to go for drinks, he continued to ask how I couldn't drink on a boat?
9. The guy is completely self-absorbed and do not take reference anything I say in my profile or probe about what information I do share with them in effort to get to know me.
10. Are in a mad rush to meet because they don't want to waste time.
These are my 10 standards
1. A profile presented with photos of a well-respectful man and introduction with proper spelling and grammar.
2. Asking me questions directly related to my profile, engaging and lively.
3. They show they have read my profile by paying attention to the details.
4. They clearly state they are looking for a relationship and have a positive outlook.
5. Share values and common interests. We share common goals.
6. Respectful, consciousness, thoughtful and fun.
7. Clearly express an interest in getting to know me.
8. Are in an appropriate age range.
9. Have a respectful living.
10. Must be a nature and animal lover.
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